This is the Story of Our Wedding Day - 10.23.10
The Big Day - Part I
The Big Day - Part I
Early Morning.... Hair & Make Up
Where do I begin to write about the biggest, most important, and best day of my life. I can't believe that as of tomorrow a month will have gone by already since our wedding day. I want to remember every detail and every feeling of that day from the minute I woke up to the minute I went to bed. Some of it is already a blur but other moments I can remember so clearly. So many great memories and feelings to cherish and remember forever.
The day began for me at 6:15, I woke up a little earlier than the alarm clock but at least I slept the night before. I remember the morning, getting a few things done around the house, making my bed and making sure my room was nice and tidy for the pictures I would take in there. Bridget and Hope stayed over the house with me. After showers for the girls and getting dressed we were off to hang up the decorations my mom got for us to put outside the house. It was a very crisp fall morning, just a little brisk. Bridget helped get on the step stool to hang up the decorations over the door and the bells from the tree. While I went to work on tying balloons to the stone wall in the driveway, I had some trouble with the ribbon, Bridget enjoyed taking pictures of this. After we were done with our decorations and had everything securely taped and tied, we packed up our bags of goodies (snacks, coffee and the veil) we were off to the hair salon to get there for our 8:00 appointments. We were meeting the rest of the girls there. There were some minor direction problems for the other girls but they made it there with no big worries.
We arrived back at the house to get ready for the main event. It was a little quiet when we got back to the house, I think we needed some naps (not me though), good thing Dad came through with some coffee. We had tons of food to put out for snacks. The best part was Andrea taking us through her Matron of Honor Survival kit, and boy there was nothing she wasn't prepared for in there!!! She had pins, bobbie pins, tissues, lip gloss for everyone, combs deodorant, mouth wash, tampons, you name it she had it, she was one prepared cookie for everything and for that I am very grateful for! She kept us all well organized and prepared.
The Big Day - Part II
Getting Ready
The flowers arrived, I was so excited to see them, they were exactly as I had pictured they would be, they were beautiful, they were just what I wanted. We did have one weird incident with the florists assistant who delivered the flowers. She brought all the girls flowers in, and then asked us (and I quote) "How well do you know your neighbors? Because I had your mom's flowers and dad's boutonnière when I got here but I left the truck open and someone must have taken them." So strange, no one took the flowers. Andrea VERY quickly stepped in and resolved the situation, sent her on her way and called up the florist owner and demanded a resolution of how she was going to fix this. Needless to say Andrea made sure our flowers arrived to where they needed to be and they did and made sure I had nothing to worry about.
In the meantime I waited (patiently?) for our photographers arrival while the girls went and got their dresses on. I was so excited when the photographers arrived, it meant the show was ready to go on, time to get dressed in my beautiful gown and start taking pictures. I remember looking out the door and seeing them in the parking lot and was so excited standing outside the front door for them. With the arrival of the photographers they wasted no time and went right to work, a few quick impromptu shots of me and the girls downstairs and then they headed right up to the bedroom where I had everything waiting and lined up. Bridget and I had hung my dress up on the picture window. It looked so pretty just hanging there. I had all of my accessories out that they took pictures of, my earrings, necklace, garter, shoes with my blue I Do stickers on the bottom, even my blue I do underwear.
After they quickly got a ton of (great) shots it was finally time to put on my wedding gown. From the moment I stepped into it I knew it was my gown, it was beautiful and so perfect. My Mom and Bridget helped zipper me into my beautiful dress and it was time to take some pictures. I couldn't stop smiling the entire time, even when I was asked to take serious pictures, I couldn't stop smiling, I was just so happy. The photographer told me I was the happiest bride he had ever seen. We headed outside with all the girls to take pictures out there. We got these amazing pictures in the street right in front of the house with the gorgeous backdrop of the trees behind us with all these amazing fall colors, you couldn't have picked a better canvas. After we had a blast hanging out in the street taking fun pictures, the photographers headed off to the church and we waited for the limo to arrive to take us to the ceremony.
The Big Day - Part III
The Ceremony....
We waited for the limo to arrive, time seemed to tick by so slowly at this point as we stood in the house waiting and watching. We finally saw the limo round the corner and we quickly piled out to meet him. No time for anything fancy we rushed to get into the limo and head to the church, we had less than 40 minutes till the church ceremony was set to start and I was anxious to get in. Once we were in, we passed around some celebratory champagne, for the beginning part of the ride I didn't seem to mind what time it was but it felt like it was taking forever to get there and then I started to get worried and asked what time it was. I knew it couldn't start without me and whenever we got there we would start but I wanted to get there already. The last few blocks off the parkway, I can remember sitting at lights, I knew we were so close yet so far it felt like. I was worried about the ceremony starting late and then not having enough time after to take pictures outside. As soon as we got there the girls piled out so quickly and ran inside the church to line up, and then it was time for me to go inside.
I remember being very anxious outside the church as I rushed to get inside, it felt like everything was starting and I couldn't catch up. I don't remember seeing or saying hi to any of the guys at the back of the church as they walked the girls down the aisle. I can remember standing there in the back, and all of a sudden I felt so nervous and overwhelmed with emotion, even just writing this I can remember the moment in the back of the church as I watched everyone else walk in and then they were gone, I don't remember seeing any of them as they faded away from the back walking down the aisle, I was just feeling so nervous and overwhelmed.
I don't remember the doors actually opening or what was around me, I saw just one thing and it was Mike. I had my eyes set on him so clearly, that was the ONLY thing I looked at, I had no idea how many people or who was there watching me or taking pictures of me walking down, I only remember looking at Mike. I remember being so nervous and being so emotional, I was trying SO HARD not to cry, I was fighting back the tears, I was so happy walking down that aisle and I could see him at the other side, that was the only thing that mattered to me in the entire world. I don't remember thinking anything about the scenery or Mike in his tux, but I remember his smile and him looking back at me. It was the most emotional moment of the day for me. I was so happy when I reached him on the other side and could hold his hand and him looking at me and telling me how beautiful I looked. And that is how I will remember how our ceremony beginning.
It felt like the shortest mass of my life, but it was beautiful. It was so personal having Father Andrzej there to marry us, he gave us a beautiful mass, and he kept saying, "this beautiful couple." Our friends and family, Anna, Emily & Nick all took part in readings in the ceremony. I can't remember all of the details of the mass, but I do remember our vows. I thought for sure I would cry but I didn't I just remember smiling and being so happy as I said those words to Mike and he to me. After that we were officially husband and wife, we did it, now we could relax and party all night long!
The Big Day - Part IV
Post Ceremony & Pre-Reception.....
We did it, we were officially Mr. & Mrs. we got to walk down the aisle together, me with a grin from ear to ear. We quickly dodged to the back of the church in the corner so our guests didn't see us. We weren't doing the traditional Catholic Ceremony receiving line, mostly because we were afraid of running out of daylight hours for our pictures all too quickly. As the guests poured out of the church, the hardest part was reigning in the parents from chatting it up with everyone right in the back of the church so we could get the show on the road with our pictures. We got to walk out of the church while our guests tossed flower petals at us (a last minute detail I indulged in). Then it was time to celebrate with a champagne toast on the red carpet in front of the limo. I loved this small little touch for a little something extra!
After that we very quickly jumped in the limo ready to speed away for pictures. We headed just down the block to the town of South Orange, NJ to take some pictures near the train tracks. Mike and I got to walk around the town a little bit while we walked over to meet up with the photographer, that was fun, all the random people on the street coming up to us and saying congratulations. We took a couple on some benches in the town and in the street with the pretty background behind us, there was also a great mural under the train tracks on the side of an old diner that made for some awesome pictures too.
Then it was off to our final destination of the night, The Manor. Known for their beautiful grounds we were sure to get some good pictures there. We headed right to the back for the gardens, unfortunately we were not the only bridal party heading back there. There was a Jewish ceremony that was about to start back there right at sunset. This was not something we were expecting to find, of course we knew we probably weren't going to be the only wedding party there, it did limit us from getting a few of the quintessential Manor shots, I'm sure we got a ton of other good pictures back there so it shouldn't matter but still slightly disappointing we couldn't access all the grounds. We did get some of my favorite picture spots back there though. We quickly took our group shots with the bridal party and then off to get some romantic pictures of the Groom & I before it was time to break loose for the party!
The Big Day - Part V
Party Time... The Reception....
It was finally time to let loose and relax and enjoy the big party with all of our friends and family. We started the evening off with cocktail hour. They let Mike and I into the room first, it was amazing to see it all set up,it looks beautiful! Then came ALL the food and there was a ton of it. Unfortunately I feel like I didn't get to taste all of it but did manage to get a few bites in here and there while saying hello to everyone. Thanks to the help in part of my amazing bridesmaids I did manage to get in a glass from the martini mashed potato bar, it was awesome, I wish I could have some more of that right now!
We did all our introductions, the bridal party came out to Justin Timberlake, Sexy Back, and Mike got to have his fun and pick our song to come out for. I don't think anyone saw him do it, he made the baseball signal for a pitcher change before we came out to "Enter Sandman" by Metallica, which also represents the song played at Yankee Stadium (when the greatest baseball closer of all time) Marino Rivera comes into the game.
The only thing left to get through at this point was our first dance. For our first dance we chose the song "Only You Can Love Me This Way" by Keith Urban. We practiced our dance for weeks but I was so nervous about it, Mike knew our dance much better than I did, it seemed to go by so slowly and I was so nervous about the steps, the dance floor felt so much smaller than it had in practice with everyone crowding around watching us. Of course they don't know what steps we missed or didn't do, I was glad when it was over and we could just relax, Mike even ended the dance with a kiss!
We had tons of good food to eat the entire night, although I don't remember much of it. I only got to have one of my mushroom ravioli's I had requested. I did however order two dinners, I wanted to try them all, I even took the leftovers home with me. I can't even remember how the cake tasted, but we had fun feeding each other, I guess we'll find out next October when we defrost the top of the cake, such a strange tradition to eat year old cake, I wonder how it will dance.
And of course there was LOTS of dancing. I don't think I have ever seen so many people on the dance floor for so long and dancing to everyone. There was dancing to old songs and new songs and a whole mess of people on the dance floor the whole time. The DJs did a fantastic job mixing the music. The end cap of the night was Sweet Caroline with everyone in a huge circle around the dance floor.....
So many happy memories and such a fun party! I couldn't believe how quickly it was over, just like that, the whole reception had flown by. It was def everything I imagined it would be and then more. I had the most fun in my entire life and just starting my life together with Mike.
